DisMatch 18+

A lightweight, anonymous matching bot for 18+ servers.

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What is DisMatch 18+?

DisMatch 18+ helps adult communities spark low-friction, private conversations. Members set preferences, get matched, and chat anonymously in a safe, temporary DM channel created by the bot. Reveal identities only when both sides agree.

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Quick Start (Server Owners)

1. Invite the bot and grant: Send Messages, Manage Messages, Embed Links, Read Message History, Use External Emojis, Manage Channels (for temporary DM), and Use Application Commands.
2. Create a channel such as #dismatch.
3. Run /start matchmaking in that channel to post the matchmaker panel.
4. (Optional) Customize the embed/title/colors and provide your server-specific TOS/Rules.

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Commands

• /start matchmaking – Post the DisMatch panel in the current channel.
• /reveal – Within the DisMatch DM, both users must run this to reveal identities.
• /report – Report ToS violations or safety concerns to staff.

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How It Works (For Users)

1. Press Set on the panel and choose your bio and preferences (who you are / who you’re seeking).
2. Press Get to review settings; Update to tweak them.
3. Press Match and keep DMs enabled.
4. You’ll be connected to a private DisMatch DM to say hi. You remain anonymous.
5. If it’s a fit, both parties can /reveal. If not, select Unmatch on the panel to queue for the next match.

Limits: Up to 2 matches per 24h. Use Unset to take a break.

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Reporting & Safety

Use /report for: harassment/abuse, suspected minors, solicitation, verifiable catfishing, or anything that feels unsafe. Be ready to share details and screenshots.

Once users have revealed and move to personal DMs, the bot will not mediate further disputes. Severe conduct may be escalated to server staff with evidence.

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Feature Highlights

• Custom Bios & Preferences – Go beyond swipe-style matching.
• Anonymous First Contact – Keep identities private until both agree to reveal.
• Lightweight UI – Buttons and dropdowns; minimal permissions.
• Extras
  • Horoscopes (daily/weekly/monthly)
  • Compatibility checks
  • Ice breakers (fortunes / pick-up lines)

TOS Reminder

Please follow Discord ToS and your server’s rules when using DisMatch 18+.